Getting into a serious relationship, and especially a marriage, is one of the most interesting concepts and serious commitments a person can do.
It is especially interesting to me, because I am such a control freak. I like everything in my life to be in order. And in general, I can keep it that way, even when other people are involved.
If I live with other people and I want the couch cushions a certain way, and they move them when I’m gone, I can always come home and fix them back how I wanted them. The fact that they were moved when I wasn’t there is annoying, but not hurtful because those cushions don’t owe me anything, and couldn’t control what they were doing. The people who move them, on the other hand, is a different story.